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Hi Reader, Lately, I’ve been reflecting on Cal Newport’s new book Slow Productivity. The idea is simple but powerful: do fewer things, but do them better. Leave room for quiet instead of rushing to fill every moment. It struck me how this mindset connects to family travel. We often feel pressure to cram itineraries full so our teens don’t get bored. Plus, I get how hard it is to get away when our teens have such busy lives... all the more reason to slow down. But boredom isn’t always the enemy — sometimes it’s where the magic happens. Whether it’s sitting in silence under the stars or waiting for a trail to open up to a breathtaking view, those moments teach kids (and us) how to be present. I’ve also been thinking about The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt, which dives into how social media reshapes our kids’ lives. The endless scrolling, the constant comparison — it’s no wonder they struggle to unplug. Travel is one of the rare times we can guide them into something deeper: real connection, with nature and with us. That’s why I love writing here, directly to you, Reader. Social media has its place, but it’s noisy, and I’d rather spend my time in your inbox — sharing stories, ideas, and resources that help you plan meaningful trips with your family. If you’re curious to dive deeper, here are a few books I recommend:
Each has shaped the way I think about technology, attention, and family time. And together, they make a pretty strong case for why slowing down — in work, in life, and in travel — matters more than ever. I'd love to hear what you think, Reader. POLL: When you travel (with teens), do youVote to see results!
Pack your schedule with activities
Lean into downtime (even if it gets uncomfortable)
Plan digital breaks (also uncomfortable)
Aim for a mix
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